If You Do Not Want Your Marriage To Break, These Are The Things You Must Never Do On Facebook

 

There have been series of arguments on whether married people are supposed to be active on social media. In order not to generate controversies, their presence there is not the problem. Instead, it is what they do there that we should focus on. A a matter of fact, one’s life should not come to an end simply because one got married. You should never allow marriage to make you lose out on your youthful years. Do everything possible but then do it with caution and be responsible while at it. Many homes have been broken due to the roles the parties involved played on social media. Almost everyone is on Facebook and it will be unfair to blame the things happening on the social site on the site itself since there are adults posting stuffs on it. One thing you have to know about social media and being online is the fact that you have to conscious of what you post. Once you hit the post button, millions of people are reading your thoughts the next second. That is what the word viral is all about as it articles and pictures have the ability to travel far. Marriage being a sacred institution has to be treated sanctimoniously. Couples should avoid doing things that will strain their relationships with their partners. If you do not want your marriage to crash, here are things you should never dare to do on Facebook: 1. Never make rude posts It is important for you to learn to vent in a different way. We all have moments when we feel like breathing and airing out our hearts. If you are married, you need to consider how your partner will feel about it especially if you are not talking to him or her about it. You do not want to give people the impression that your partner is incapable of making you happy or that you have problems in your home. 2. Never find your exes Breaking up might have been a bad experience for you. You are expected to have made up your mind about them before getting married. Do not become a stalker who keeps checking out what they are up to. Let it go. Let them go. You are supposed to focus on your partner and friends that will bring you so much delight. Finding exes may make the old flames burn. You will only have yourself to blame if you keep taking that path. 3. Never post nude pictures In this part of the world where married people are supposed to be role models to the youths when it comes to being responsible, you should never be found wanting. It will be a belittling for your spouse to find out that you have shown the world everything he should be seeing. By doing so, what exactly do you want to achieve? It is not a memorable thing to be left for your unborn children. 4. Do not become addicted In truth, there is so much fun being on social sites. You can get carried away connecting with other people while your marriage suffers the blow. You have to learn to sign out when you ought to. Your partner may feel bad over having to fight for your attention when you are glued to your phones chatting. If you do not quit when you ought to, you may be indirectly pushing them out into the arms of other people. 5. Stay away from pages that will affect you negatively There are so many pages and groups on social sites. Find the healthy ones and follow only those. Going for the pages that have little or nothing to offer may help you cultivate bad habits that will make your partner worry over you. If your marriage is important to you, you will have your partner’s best interest at heart while doing things on Facebook and other social sites. 6. Never become violent It is quite painful for you to discover your partner has a side chic or an obsessed crush on Facebook. For you to be on that kind of platform, it is expected that you have gone through school. Do not start to bash the lady or man with words. Take your problems outside the forum and find a permanent solution to them. Not doing that will make people know what i happening in your home. Remember those sympathizing with you will mock you later on. Let your maturity and education show in everything you do.

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Photo: Lagos police arrest suspected owner of Naijagistlive over attempts to swindle oil billionaire businessman, Femi Otedola

Operatives of the Special Fraud Unit (SFU) in Lagos have arrested a suspected fraudster, Babatunde Oyedepo, popularly known as Baudex on IG, for allegedly attempting to swindle businessman Femi Otedola.‎

The Nation reports that Oyedepo, 23, was alleged to have sent threat and blackmail messages to the complainants and other high profile Nigerians through a website, naijagistlive.com, demanding huge sums of money.


Oyedepo, a resident of Sixth Avenue in Festac Town, was alleged to have posted a superimposed nude pictures of a lawyer on his website, alleging that she had been sleeping with her boss and other clients. According to the police, the suspect demanded N3.5million from the lawyer to remove the inappropriate picture from the site, which the victim could not afford.

A police officer who spoke on condition of anonymity said “The victim had allegedly told the suspect that she has no such money in her account and that the picture posted on the website had cost her, her job, her marriage and her social life. The lawyer is among the three different persons who petitioned the suspect.” Spokesman for SFU, Lawal Audu said the suspect has three different cases pending before the unit, adding that the first two involved fraud and threat to life.

According to Audu, on October 19th, one Dapo Balogun reported a case of extortion, black mail and threat to life against the suspect.

“The complainant claimed that the suspect had posted on naijagistlife a story alleging that he had worked with former Petroleum Minister, Deziani Allison-Maduekwe and that throughout the period he had fraudulently acquired huge sum of money. The complainant also claimed to have received a mail from the suspect, informing him that he should pay an undisclosed amount running into millions to enable him remove the provocative story from the site.

He alleged that since then he had been receiving threat messages from unknown callers demanding huge sum or risk being being kidnapped. The second complainant is Femi Otedola. He claimed that the suspect posted an annoying story on the same website accusing him of sleeping with different girls in his office. The suspect has another fraud case pending at the Federal High court.”

The suspect however denied being responsible for the actions, insisting that he was framed by the owners of the website which he only designed. The school dropout who claimed to be a website designer, said that he was contacted through email to design the website.

He said: “I design websites for people and after designing the site I will include my contacts in the website to attract other customers. I was arrested through my contact on naijagistlive.com.

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Femi Fani-Kayode Slumps in EFCC Custody: We Fear for his Life - aide

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When Chief Femi Fani-Kayode was rearrested on Friday, 21^st of October, 2016, in the premises of the Federal High Court, Ikoyi, Lagos, we raised a number of issues which included that the re-arrest was not only unnecessary but that it was also reckless.

We made known our fears that Fani-Kayode’s life was in dire danger as long as he remained in EFCC custody or in the custody of any agency of the federal government based on discreet information available to us. This is apart from the fact that his health has been badly affected since his incarceration for a whopping 67 days based on some questionable ‘detention orders’. This fact is well known to the EFCC as Fani-Kayode’s lawyers have written several letters to the Commission reminding them of the health conditions of the former minister of aviation (Kindly see attached).

It is therefore shocking that having known these facts, the EFCC still acted in a most unprofessional and crude way by re-arresting a man who has never been known to turn down their invitation even for once, who was since granted administrative bail by the same Commission after meeting the stringent conditions set by them; a man who is also supposed to be on bail as granted by the courts after fulfilling the conditions, and who even has his international passport still lodged with the Commission. 

Although Chief Femi Fani-Kayode was yet to complete the recovery therapy he was undergoing after spending the initial 67 grueling days in EFCC custody wherein he was also physically attacked by one of the Commission’s agents, in deference to the law and the Commission, he painfully but willingly cut short his therapy and medical checks to attend court proceedings.

One would have thought that these were enough to convince EFCC that Fani-Kayode was very willing to face his persecutors in court. But rather than be humane in their conduct, EFCC hounded him for the umpteenth time on that fateful Friday and have since kept him in custody.

It is therefore little wonder that based on the history of his medical conditions which the Commission is very much aware of, Chief Femi Fani-Kayode slumped while in detention on Saturday, 22^nd of October, 2016. 

But for the quick and professional intervention of the medical team in the EFCC medical facilities, the story could have been different, it could have been fatal!

We must commend the medical staff at the Commission’s medical facility. They were prompt in their response, and very impressive in their care. It is very heartwarming to know that some professionals have not allowed the political witch hunt and persecution of political opponents and perceived enemies taint their professional calling. We hope this extends to all facets of the Nigerian society.

Nigerians would recall that we had earlier raised the alarm about the danger in which Fani-Kayode’s life is right now; we are shocked that that danger rather than ebb away is becoming a reality slowly but steadily. If not, why re-arrest and keep him in detention when he has not failed to appear before the Commission or even before the courts at any time, neither has he ever been declared wanted?

The fresh charges for which he was said to have been re-arrested were presented to him over the weekend and they border on an alleged N26m which he was accused to have collected from the erstwhile NSA, Sambo Dasuki, and he has since signed for the charges while he waits for his day in court. So, why still detain him if there is no sinister motive behind it all? 

From the foregoing, it is obvious that this issue about corruption is nothing but an already exposed façade for the silencing of opposition voices, and keep Fani-Kayode out of circulation as long as practicable since he is seen by many as one of the strongest voices against tyranny, oppression and executive lawlessness.

For the avoidance of doubt, we reiterate our earlier warning that nothing untoward must happen to Chief Femi Fani-Kayode whether now or in the nearest future. Should anything happen to him, we can assure those responsible that there would be reactions of unimaginable propensity.

It is not all sacrifices that the gods accept. There are some sacrifices that even oracles reject for fear of untamable repercussions!

Nigerians are watching and waiting!

Jude Ndukwe

SA (media) to Chief Femi Fani-Kayode

24^th October, 2016

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Kidnappers Of Lagos Monarch, Oniba of Iba, Arraigned In Court (See Photos)

The Lagos state government today, arraigned the kidnappers of the Oniba of Iba, Oba Yishau Goriola Oseni before a High Court in Igbosere, Lagos.
The four suspects namely; Duba Furejo, Yerin Fresh, Ododomo Isaiah and Reuben Anthony were arraigned before Justice Oluwatoyin Taiwo for offences of conspiracy to kidnap, murder and robbery. They were arraigned on eight-count charges relating to murder of the palace security guard; Sunday Eniola Okanlawon, kidnapping of the monarch, and murder of a commercial motorcycle rider, Okeke Joseph.



 

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