Husband Tells Court: Our kids Don’t Look Like Me, They Are Fair, I Am Dark

An estranged wife, Adenike Oyetoso, has dragged her husband before an Agege Customary court in Lagos, over allegations of ill-treatment and battery.
Adenike told the court that her husband, Gabriel, was irresponsible and does not cater for her and their two children.
She further added that her six-year-old marriage started having trouble when her husband started a new relationship with their neighbour.
“He started finding fault in everything I do. I became a dirty woman. He even told me that I irritate him anytime he sees me. He suddenly took to beating me and stopped discharging his fatherly duties to our children.
“I tried to reason with him and even reported to his family, but they took sides with him. His mother said that she had consulted a prophet who told her that I was responsible for her son’s misfortune.
“I begged him to forgive me if I had done anything wrong but he said he does not want me or the children again. I am pleading with this court to end this marriage because I am still young and can’t remain married to a man who does not have feelings for me anymore,” she said.
HUSBAND’S REACTION
Mr. Gabriel denied the allegations. He told the court that his estranged wife was a good liar who is in an amorous relationship with her former fiance.
“I read messages on her phone and it is obvious that she has rekindled her relationship with him. They even talked about eloping to Osun State and starting a new life. Right now, I even doubt the paternity of our two children because they don’t look like me. We are both dark, while the children are very fair,” he said.
After listening to both parties, the court adjourned to January 10, 2017 for continuation.

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Ladies, These Are 3 Things To Consider Before Attempting To ‘Trap’ A Man With A Baby

These days, some ladies who want a man really badly for themselves may want to trap him with a baby. If you are one of such women, you may have to think about your decision again.
Is it okay to Baby Trap your boyfriend and bring a child into this world just to satisfy a goal? Apparently some women think this is the thing to do these days. Am I just old fashioned in believing things should happen naturally?
A woman was actually planning – yes, planning in detail – to fall pregnant to her boyfriend by the end of the year without him knowing. Her reasons? Because she was 28, and her goal for the last 10 years was to have a baby by the age of 30.
They had been together for a year or two and had not really discussed having children. Is it okay to do that? Here are some questions you might want to ask yourself before you go ahead and Baby Trap your boyfriend:
1. Why Do You Want a Baby?
If you are planning to have a baby to save your relationship, think it will be fun, or to satisfy a whim, then think again very carefully. A baby is not a toy or animal that you can give away when you’ve had enough. It is a little person who deserves to be loved, cherished, educated, and happy. Babies cost money. Babies cry. Babies need attention (sometimes all night). Babies get sick. And sometimes, there is no one around to help you.
Sure, they are cute and will love you unconditionally in the early years, but they need loving parents. Parents who have talked discussed and decided upon creating a life together, parents who have shared and respected each other’s thoughts and opinions about parenthood. Accidents happen (my best friend had a beautiful accident), but they should never be ‘planned’ accidents.
2. What Happens When He Finds Out He’s Been Manipulated?
How do you think he is going to feel once he finds out that this pregnancy is based on a lie? How detrimental to your relationship is this going to be? If you are trying to save a failing relationship and he finds out you have orchestrated this baby, there is little chance he will want to be with you. He will feel lied to, cheated, manipulated and trapped. He may decide he will stay for the baby’s sake, but if he does, it’s going to be a long, hard road until the two of you can come together in love again. You will have broken his trust.
3. Who is Going to Be There for You if he Leaves?
What if he finds out and never forgives you? Or even worse: What if he leaves you?! Sure, he may still provide for you financially, but he is not going to be there for you in the middle of the night when your baby has a raging temperature or is crying. He is not going to be on hand to help change nappies, do the extra washing, help with the feeding or hug you when you feel too overwhelmed.
Your mom, sister, or best friend will be there to help you whenever they can, but unless you are living with them, it’s unlikely they will be there when you really need them, such as in the middle of the night. And if you decide you need extra money and want to work, who’s going to look after your baby when you are out earning the money? Or when they are sick?
Consider Your Decision Carefully
It may be a nice thought, falling pregnant, your fella doing cartwheels around the street, and you two growing old together with more kids and grandchildren, but the probability of that happening is slight – if he has no say in it.
Children are wonderful, beautiful, and amazing beings. Consider your partner, your future child, and then take a long, hard look at yourself. Do you really want to Baby Trap someone and bring a baby into a world based on a lie? Consider your decision carefully. Once you have a baby, you can’t hand it back.

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OMG! Please Do Not ‘OPEN’ This Post If You are With Your Girlfriend or your wife

 

I actually just want us to have some fun with this photo i saw somewhere online. She’s so beautiful isnt it? Her name is Mz Fee! she’s a Ghanaian model. I love her shape dont you? See more mouth watering photos below and drop your comment if she’s your type of lepa or not:

Remember! if you open it while your gf is there with you… Dont blame me for anything oo!

 

 

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Marriage is not by force, stop sulking – KemI Olunloyo blasts Ubi Franklin, Esoro

Controversial journalist, Kemi Omololu-Olunloyo, has waded into the rumoured split between actress Lilian Esoro and Triple MG boss, Ubi Franklin.
Kemi Olunloyo, also known online as the SnitchLady on her Instagram page addressed the couple as “Sulking couple” following the drama displayed by both on the social media.
She wrote: “My advice to these kids @Ubifranklintriplemg and @LilianEsoroo. How am I supposed to marry for the first time at 52 years when you two fucked up like this? Lawd, I want to slap you both silly.

“As for you Lillian, you don’t know the value of marriage. Don’t you dare try calling #MadamHNN a poor expert on marriage because I’ve never been, so let me straighten you out first. Single old hags are the best advisers.
“I don’t need a husband, a husband needs ME! You went in that marriage with the opposite attitude and exited with my motto. Ubi ain’t coming back for you.
“He’s regretting it all over #socialmedia but it’s a band aid. Bigger wound can’t be fixed! No be curse biko!
“Remember what I wrote to Toke Makinwa when she found out on #socialmedia that Anita Solomon was heavily pregnant for Maje?

“Leave him! No she didn’t she tried to patch things up doing meaningless videos with their portrait on the wall till the portrait finally got taken down, only to be telling me in a book now she contracted itchy vaginal crabs from him

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